An idea to tackle this and similar questions using as small numbers and multiples of $\;101\;$ as possible (when possible, of course...).
Observe that $\;5=-96\pmod {101}\;$ , and $\;96=2^5\cdot3\;$ , so we can try to deal with these apparently easier numbers. Since we have $\;96=16\cdot6\;$, we have:
$$4^2=16=2^4\;,\;\;101\cdot2=202-6=196=14^2$$
and thus we have:
$$\;\sqrt{16}=4\;,\;\;\sqrt{-6}=14\implies \sqrt{16\cdot(-6)=-96}=4\cdot14=56$$
and thus also $\;\sqrt{-96}=-56=45\;$ , so $\;x^2=5\pmod{101}\implies x=\pm56=56,\,45\;$
Finally, your quadratic's solutions are ($\pmod{101}$ ):
$$x_{1,2}=\frac{-3\pm56}2=\begin{cases}\frac{98+56}2=77\\{}\\\frac{98-56}2=21\end{cases}$$