$$\int_0^{\infty} \dfrac{x}{e^x+1} dx = \int_0^{\infty} \dfrac{x e^{-x}}{1+e^{-x}} dx = \int_0^{\infty} xe^{-x} \left(\sum_{k=0}^{\infty} (-1)^k e^{-kx} \right) dx$$
Now $$\int_0^{\infty} xe^{-(m+1)x} dx = \dfrac1{(m+1)^2}$$
Hence,
$$\int_0^{\infty} xe^{-x} \left(\sum_{k=0}^{\infty} (-1)^k e^{-kx} \right) dx = \sum_{k=0}^{\infty} (-1)^k \left(\int_0^{\infty} x e^{-(k+1)x} dx \right) = \sum_{k=0}^{\infty} \dfrac{(-1)^k}{(k+1)^2} = \dfrac{\pi^2}{12}$$
EDIT
In general, for $n$ in the right half of the complex plane, i.e. $\text{Real}(n) > 0$,
$$\int_0^{\infty} \dfrac{x^n}{e^x+1} dx = \int_0^{\infty} \dfrac{x^n e^{-x}}{1+e^{-x}} dx = \int_0^{\infty} x^ne^{-x} \left(\sum_{k=0}^{\infty} (-1)^k e^{-kx} \right) dx$$
Now $$\int_0^{\infty} x^ne^{-(m+1)x} dx = \dfrac{\Gamma(n+1)}{(m+1)^{n+1}} \,\,\,\,\,\,\, (\text{Follows from definition of }\Gamma(x) \text{ using change of variables})$$
Hence,
\begin{align}
\int_0^{\infty} x^ne^{-x} \left(\sum_{k=0}^{\infty} (-1)^k e^{-kx} \right) dx & = \sum_{k=0}^{\infty} (-1)^k \left(\int_0^{\infty} x^n e^{-(k+1)x} dx \right)\\
& = \Gamma(n+1)\sum_{k=0}^{\infty} \dfrac{(-1)^k}{(k+1)^{n+1}} = \eta(n+1) \Gamma(n+1)
\end{align}
$$\boxed{\displaystyle \color{blue}{\int_0^{\infty} \dfrac{x^n}{e^x+1} dx = \eta(n+1) \Gamma(n+1)}}$$
which is what @Chris's sister has.
A similar technique also reveals the other well-known identity.
$$\boxed{\displaystyle \color{blue}{\int_0^{\infty} \dfrac{x^n}{e^x-1} dx = \zeta(n+1) \Gamma(n+1)}}$$