I am looking for further intuitions about positive definite functions, and have several related questions on this matter. I know this isn't the most specific question, but I find that speaking intuitions can be very helpful and can actually at times encourage a deeper mathematical understanding.
A positive definite function $\phi(t)$ is a function such that for any $n\in \mathbb{N}$, any complex numbers $\xi_1,\xi_2,\cdots,\xi_n$, and any real numbers $t_1,t_2,\cdots,t_n$, $$\sum\limits_{i,j=1}^n \phi(t_i-t_j)\xi_i\overline{\xi_j} \geq 0.$$
Basically, this is saying that the matrices $A_{ij} = \phi(t_i-t_j)$ are positive definite.
However, why should we care about such matrices / what relationship do they have with the underlying function / what do they reveal about the properties of the underlying function? Why, for example, do we care about our function evaluated at 'time jumps' $\phi(t_i-t_j)$?
When a matrix is positive definite, it says something very specific about the way that it acts on a particular vector space. Namely, that it preserves "half-spaces" / it acts such that the angle between an input vector and its image will always be less than or equal to $\pi/2$. But it's unclear to me what, if anything, is the analogous statement for a positive definite function.
Moreover, I know that positive definiteness arises naturally in the theory of the Fourier transform, in that to be positive definite is is sufficient for our function to be the Fourier transform of a non-negative, real-valued, continuous function. However, with an eye towards building intuitions, why should we believe that a Fourier transform should have this property? What, if anything, does this property have to say about "frequency space"?