I guess one way is to try to decompose the series to product of two absolutely convergent series, another way is to prove in general what makes $\sum\frac{na_n}{b_n}=\sum\frac{a_n}{(b_n)^2}$; or I can check if the equation is valid for all q and see if I can get some ideas.
I try to decompose the series as $\sum \frac{n(\sqrt{q})^n(\sqrt{q})^n}{1+(i\sqrt{q})^{2n}}=\sum \frac{n(\sqrt{q})^n(\sqrt{q})^n}{1-(i\sqrt{q})^{2n}i^2}=\sum\frac{n(\sqrt{q})^n(\sqrt{q})^n}{(1-(i\sqrt{q})^{n}i)(1+(i\sqrt{q})^{n}i)},$ which is a product of two absolutely convergent series. Is it possible to proceed from that?
I guess a problem I encounter here is that I can't introduce another index, or even make the series product of two (perhaps absolutely convergent) series with independent indexes.
(Well, perhaps I should make it more explicit that it's not exactly
$$1+\frac{8q}{1+q}+\frac{16q^2}{1-q^2}+\frac{24q^3}{1+q^3}+\dots,$$
which is very similar to the above series. One may not express the denominators elegantly, which I guess is something one naturally pursues, but at least in this case it doesn’t hinder us from finding a nice solution.)
However, the two actually work the same way. (Note that $1/(1-a)$, instead of $1/(1-a^n)$, expands to $1+a+a^2+...$ this is exactly where I get trapped.)
Here is the solution I get by far:
$$\frac{q}{1+q}+\frac{2q^2}{1-q^2}+\frac{3q^3}{1+q^3}+\dots
=\sum \frac{nq^n}{1-(-)^{n+1}q^n}\\
=\sum_{n=1} nq^n\sum_{m=0} ((-)^{n+1}q^n)^m\\
=\sum_{m=0}\sum_{n=1} (-)^{m}n[(-)^{m}q^{m+1}]^n,$$
which, for $\sum_{n=1} nt^n=\frac{t}{(1-t)^2}$ , equals
$$\sum_{m=0} (-)^{m}\frac{(-)^{m}q^{m+1}}{(1-(-)^{m}q^{m+1})^2}=\sum_{m=0} \frac{q^{m+1}}{(1-(-)^{m}q^{m+1})^2},$$
and so we get the result.
In a word, $\frac{1}{1-t}=\sum_{m=0} t^m, \sum_{n=1} nt^n=\frac{t}{(1-t)^2}$, this is how we go from the left side to the right.
The double series is like:
$1\ \ \ \ \ \ (1\ +0\ \ \ \ \ \ \ \ +0^2+...\ \ \ \ \ )$
$8q\ \ \ \ (1\ +q\ \ \ \ \ \ \ \ +q^2+...\ \ \ \ \ )$
$16q^2(1\ +(-q^2)\ +(-q^2)^2...)$
And for the series converges absolutely, the row sum (left side) and the column sum (right side) is the same, which completes the proof.
This example illustrates a condition for switching the order of summing indexes, as well as how to recognize patterns. Also, $nq^n$ and $q^n$ are exactly the two absolute convergent series that I was looking for, though I got the latter not by breaking each item on the left to a prduct, but by using Taylor expansion. From that one can see matrix, indexing, (double) series, (Taylor) expansion are much related.
PS: a hindsight, one may view the problem from another way. The sum of nominator $8nq^n$ in the series is obviously convergent, while the denominator is not, so we may regard it as a limit of infinite series, i.e. a sum, instead of as an item in the series.