In Thurston's superb essay On proof and progress in mathematics, he makes this observation:
Of course there is always another subtlety to be gleaned, but I would like to at least think that I have absorbed the main intuition behind each element of the above list. However:
Differential geometry is not my strong suit, unfortunately, so I have had trouble trying to unravel this even at a formal level. Manifolds and vector bundles themselves I am comfortable with, but with connections and connection forms I have trouble moving between formalism and intuition, and "Lagrangian section" is not a term I've come across (though I can find its definition online).
So, I have some questions about Thurston's 37th conception of the derivative:
To use Thurston's words: can someone "translate into precise, formal, and explicit definitions" making the "differences start to evaporate" between 37 and the differential of a smooth map?
What is the intuition behind it - why should the notion of "Lagrangian section" appear here, what does it mean (intuitively) when a connection makes the graph of $f$ parallel, etc.?
My hope is also for answers that are as accessible to as many people as possible, though of course, any explanation has to assume some level of background knowledge.