On page 23 of Lawrence Evans' Partial Differential Equations text (2nd edition) he claims that $$\frac{ f( x + he_i - y) - f( x-y)}{h} \to \frac{ \partial f}{ \partial x_i} ( x-y)$$ uniformly on $\mathbb{R}^n$ as $h \to 0$. So
$$\frac{ \partial u}{ \partial x_i } (x) = \int_{\mathbb{R}^n }\Phi(y) \frac{ \partial f}{ \partial x_i} ( x- y) dy$$ Why does this hold true? I have proved uniform convergence as follows:
Proof: It suffices to show that $$\underbrace{ \frac{ f( x + h e_i - y ) - f( x-y) }{ h} - \frac{ \partial f}{ \partial x_i } ( x-y)}_{g_h(y)} \to 0 $$ uniformly as $h \to 0$. But by the Mean Value Theorem, for each $h$ there exists a $\theta_h$ such that $0 < \theta_h < 1$ and $\frac{ f( x + h e_i - y ) - f( x-y) }{ h} = f_{x_i} ( x+ \theta_h h e_i - y) $. So \begin{align*} g_h(y) &= \frac{ f( x + h e_i - y ) - f( x-y) }{ h} - \frac{ \partial f}{ \partial x_i } ( x-y) \\ &= f_{x_i} ( x+ \theta_h h e_i - y) - f_{x_i} ( x-y) \end{align*} but $f_{x_i}$ is uniformly continuous ($f \in C_c^2$ so $f_{ x_i} \in C_c^1$ and therefore continuous on a compact set, so uniformly continuous). Therefore, regardless of $y$, for small enough $h$ this difference can be made arbitrarily small. So $g_h(y) \to 0$ uniformly, as we intended to show. QED.
But how does uniform convergence allow us to move the derivative through the integral sign?