Let $A$ be a finite-dimensional algebra over $\mathbb{R}$, not necessarily associative (so this includes both associative and Lie algebras), and let $\varphi_t : A \to A$ be a one-parameter family of automorphisms of $A$ (so a one-parameter subgroup of the Lie group $\text{Aut}(A)$). Then differentiating the identity
$$\varphi_t(ab) = \varphi_t(a) \varphi_t(b)$$
in the variable $t$ gives
$$D(ab) = D(a) b + a D(b)$$
where $D$ is the derivative $\frac{d \varphi}{dt}$ evaluated at $t = 0$. In other words, one-parameter automorphisms of $A$ have the form
$$\varphi_t(a) = e^{Dt} a$$
where $D$ is a derivation on $A$; said another way, the vector space $\text{Der}(A)$ of derivations on $A$ is the tangent space to the identity of $\text{Aut}(A)$. The slogan here is that "derivations are infinitesimal automorphisms."
This means $\text{Der}(A)$ is a Lie algebra! Moreover you can check that its Lie bracket is given by the commutator bracket. This is why the commutator of two derivations is another derivation, so this is where fact #2 comes from; this fact is the derivative of the fact that the product of two automorphisms is another automorphism.
Now, recall that if $G$ is a group then sitting inside its automorphism group $\text{Aut}(G)$ is the subgroup $\text{Inn}(G)$ of inner automorphisms given by conjugation $h \mapsto ghg^{-1}$. The analogue of this fact for Lie algebras $\mathfrak{g}$ is that sitting inside the Lie algebra $\text{Der}(\mathfrak{g})$ of derivations on $\mathfrak{g}$ is a Lie subalgebra of inner derivations, given by the adjoint action
$$\text{ad}_X(Y) = [X, Y].$$
If $\mathfrak{g}$ is the Lie algebra of a Lie group $G$ then inner derivations correspond precisely to the derivations obtained by starting from a one-parameter subgroup of inner automorphisms $h \mapsto g_t h g_t^{-1}$ of $G$, considering the induced one-parameter subgroup of automorphisms of $\mathfrak{g}$, and then differentiating the parameter. In particular, by the above calculation, inner derivations are derivations (with respect to the Lie bracket); this is where fact #3 comes from and why Lie algebras have to satisfy the Jacobi identity.
The second half of Fact #4 is the statement that the inner derivation map $\mathfrak{g} \to \text{Der}(\mathfrak{g})$ is a homomorphism of Lie algebras, which is the Lie algebra analogue of the statement that the inner automorphism map $G \to \text{Aut}(G)$ is a group homomorphism, although this isn't quite an explanation of why it's equivalent to the Jacobi identity.
For fact #1, take $A$ to be associative. In this context we can again consider one-parameter subgroups of inner automorphisms $x \mapsto a_t x a_t^{-1}$ of $A$, and differentiating these we again obtain a subalgebra of the Lie algebra $\text{Der}(A)$ of derivations on $A$ given by inner derivations
$$\text{ad}_a(x) = [a, x] = ax - xa.$$
So commutators are derivations! Since inner automorphisms of $A$ form a Lie subgroup of $\text{Aut}(A)$, inner derivations form a Lie subalgebra of $\text{Der}(A)$, which is where fact #1 comes from.
The assumption that $A$ is finite-dimensional and real can be removed by replacing $t$ with a nilpotent; more precisely we can consider "infinitesimal automorphisms to first order," namely automorphisms of $A[t]/t^2$ which reduce to the identity $\bmod t$, and a calculation shows that these have the form $1 + Dt = \exp(Dt)$ where $D$ is a derivation, in full generality ($A$ is an abelian group equipped with a bilinear multiplication, not necessarily associative). We can even consider "formal automorphisms" by working with formal power series $A[[t]]$ (at least if $A$ is a $\mathbb{Q}$-algebra, and this construction has to be modified a bit otherwise).