What helps is to re-express everything in variables that add linearly. Set
$$
X=\frac{1}{a^{2}},\qquad Y=\frac{1}{b^{2}},\qquad Z=\frac{1}{c^{2}},
$$
and for a given reflection $(h,k,l)$ write
$$
W=\frac{1}{d^{2}}=h^{2}X+k^{2}Y+l^{2}Z.
$$
If $a,b,c$ vary independently from crystallite to crystallite (or over whatever ensemble you are sampling), then $X,Y,Z$ are independent positive random variables and each measured peak gives you the distribution of a different linear combination $W$ with known nonnegative coefficients. Your asymmetric $W$ is then entirely natural: even if $X,Y,Z$ were symmetric, the sum with unequal coefficients will generally be skewed.
There are two complementary ways to go from the observed families $\{W_{r}\}$ to information about $X,Y,Z$. The first uses moments (or, better, cumulants). Independence implies additivity of cumulants for linear combinations: for any order $m\ge1$,
$$
\kappa_m(W)=h^{2m}\kappa_m(X)+k^{2m}\kappa_m(Y)+l^{2m}\kappa_m(Z).
$$
Thus, if you estimate $\kappa_m(W)$ from the line shape of several distinct reflections $(h,k,l)$, you obtain (for each fixed $m$) a linear system in the three unknowns $\kappa_m(X),\kappa_m(Y),\kappa_m(Z)$. Three reflections with linearly independent coefficient triples $(h^{2m},k^{2m},l^{2m})$ are enough to solve for the $m$-th cumulants; using many reflections gives an overdetermined system you can solve in least squares to reduce noise. Doing this for $m=1,2,3,\dots$ gives you the mean, variance, skewness, etc. of $X,Y,Z$. With those cumulants in hand, you can either report them directly or fit a plausible positive family to each of $X,Y,Z$ (gamma, lognormal, inverse-Gaussian, …) by matching a few low-order cumulants. This immediately accounts for the asymmetry you see in $W$: e.g. if $a,b,c$ are approximately lognormal, then $X,Y,Z$ are also lognormal (since $\log X=-2\log a$), and a scaled sum of independent lognormals is well known to be skewed to the right.
The second route works in the Fourier (characteristic-function) domain and is essentially a deconvolution with known scalings. Let $\phi_U(t)=\mathbb{E}[e^{itU}]$ be the characteristic function. For each measured reflection $r$ with indices $(h_r,k_r,l_r)$,
$$
\phi_{W_r}(t)=\phi_X(h_r^{2}t)\,\phi_Y(k_r^{2}t)\,\phi_Z(l_r^{2}t).
$$
Taking logs turns products into sums: $\log\phi_{W_r}(t)=\log\phi_X(h_r^{2}t)+\log\phi_Y(k_r^{2}t)+\log\phi_Z(l_r^{2}t)$. If you estimate $\phi_{W_r}$ (or $\log\phi_{W_r}$) empirically from each line shape, these are functional equations for the three unknown functions $\log\phi_X,\log\phi_Y,\log\phi_Z$ evaluated at scaled arguments. With a suite of reflections spanning different $(h^2,k^2,l^2)$, you can fit $\log\phi_X,\log\phi_Y,\log\phi_Z$ on a grid of $t$-values by least squares with smoothness/positivity regularization; then invert the Fourier transform to obtain nonparametric estimates of the densities of $X,Y,Z$. This is a “blind” but identified deconvolution because the scalings are known and differ across reflections; the log transform makes the estimation additive and stabilizes products.
Both approaches extend naturally to error models and finite resolution. In practice a robust workflow is: estimate the first two or three cumulants $\kappa_m(W_r)$ for a moderate number of well-separated reflections; solve the linear systems for $\kappa_m(X),\kappa_m(Y),\kappa_m(Z)$ using independence; fit a positive family to each of $X,Y,Z$ (gamma and lognormal are physically reasonable for positive geometric quantities); and finally predict the full peak shapes $W_r=h_r^{2}X+k_r^{2}Y+l_r^{2}Z$ from the fitted $X,Y,Z$ as a check. If the parametric fit is inadequate, switch to the characteristic-function fitting to recover $X,Y,Z$ nonparametrically, enforcing smoothness and nonnegativity. In either case you are no longer forcing normality on $1/d^{2}$; the observed asymmetry is explained by the positivity and skewness of the underlying $1/a^{2},1/b^{2},1/c^{2}$, and the multiple reflections provide exactly the independent linear combinations needed to recover their distributions.