Why do they have to be units? $\mathbb{Q}_{2}[\sqrt{2}]$ is a quadratic extension but $|2|_{2}=\frac{1}{2}\neq 1$.
Where do I need them to be units below?
$\mathbb{Q}_{2}[\sqrt{a}]=\mathbb{Q}_{2}[\sqrt{b}]$ iff $a=bk^{2}$ i.e. $a\equiv b~ mod (\mathbb{Q}_{2})^{2}$ because:
if $\sqrt{a}=c+d\sqrt{b}\Rightarrow a=c^2+d^2b+2\sqrt{b}cd\Rightarrow a\equiv b ~mod (\mathbb{Q}_{2})^{2}$
if $a=bk^{2}\Rightarrow \sqrt{a}=c\sqrt{b}$